Erika & Frida are ENGAGED! They met on TINDER just about two years ago and, despite the fact that neither Erika nor Frida was “looking for a serious relationship,” they’ve been together ever since! When they first got together, Frida was an exchange student visiting from Sweden, but decided to extend her stay because things with Erika were going so well...they even had their first “marriage convo” AFTER THREE WEEKS! Their one major conflict centered around a Thanksgiving with Erika’s family shortly after Erika came out. Even though both Erika and Frida KNEW they shared something special, it was difficult to get Erika’s family on board, which meant that a trip that should have been fun and exciting turned out to be awkward and ultimately took a lot of time and energy to recover from. They also chat with Julia about dealing with friends not adapting well to their burgeoning relationship, and about how blended families – and the nuanced relationships that come out of them – often require more sensitivity and care. Julia is HAVING A MOMENT as she does NOT believe in soul mates, but she thinks Erika and Frida…are. Congratulations on your engagement, Erika & Frida!